tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32053362.post1247542873214908091..comments2024-03-26T00:25:34.026-04:00Comments on Not Running a Hospital: Death close upPaul Levyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17065446378970179507noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32053362.post-84118414969258423642007-06-05T20:42:00.000-04:002007-06-05T20:42:00.000-04:00Well said, Paul. Being a part of that type of sit...Well said, Paul. Being a part of that type of situation is indeed humbling, fulfilling and a privilege, which is why I am part of BIDMC's palliative care vigil volunteer program (to sit with dying patients who are alone). Thank you for caring so much.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32053362.post-68090787951585488672007-06-04T18:44:00.000-04:002007-06-04T18:44:00.000-04:00This is beautifully written! I have learned that ...This is beautifully written! I have learned that Americans do not do well with feelings-their own or being in the company of others who are grieving or experiencing an end of life journey where feelings and emotions are rampant. They are afraid, not only of what to say but what they will feel themselves. It's really OK to cry.<BR/> <BR/>It is so important for those making quality and patient centered decisions to let their "in control" guard down a bit and experience real life and death experiences as you have. One could learn so much by sitting with a patient or family watching a loved one slip away. Perhaps, they would understand the devastation and loss of connection that one feels. Or, perhaps they would feel that peace and humbling.<BR/> <BR/>I have a quote on my desk,"Courage is not the lack of fear, it is acting in spite of it." Hold a few hands and you will understand the need for gentleness. It's not about getting soft but in getting real.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32053362.post-49541538361224794872007-06-04T16:50:00.000-04:002007-06-04T16:50:00.000-04:00Being with someone while they are dying, and more ...Being with someone while they are dying, and more importantly, helping them transition is one of the most rewarding and humbling experiences I have ever been a part of as well. Keep up the visits!! They mean a lot to people.Betsy B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13845070665906953016noreply@blogger.com